2008 Circle of Friends Essay Contest

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In March, The Arc, Upper Valley conducted an essay contest for fifth grade students in Grand Forks and East Grand Forks Public Schools, sponsored by Community Bank of the Red River Valley.

 Students were encouraged to write about personal experiences with friends, neighbors, or family members who have an intellectual, cognitive or related developmental disability.  The essays were written after the students viewed the video Forever Friends, which was produced by The Arc, Upper Valley with funding from the North Dakota State Council on Developmental Disabilities, and a brief classroom discussion on disabilities and friendships.

First and second place winners were chosen for both Grand Forks and East Grand Forks from among over 150 essays. First place winners received a $100 savings bond and second place winners received a $50 savings bond, courtesy of Community Bank of the Red River Valley.

1st Place - $100 Savings Bond

The World Through Mason’s Eyes

by Reed Hjelle

     Mason is my second cousin. He was born with a disability called Microphthalmia Colobma.  This means he was born with small eyes. Basically, he cannot see very much, if anything. Because he is only a year old and cannot communicate with his parents, no none knows how much he can see or can’t see.  I wonder what the world looks like through Mason’s eyes.

     Mason loves the same things other babies love.  He loves to be in the water, so bath time is fun time. Mason also loves to be read to, he especially loves books about animals and the sounds they make. His favorite is the duck.  Because he cannot see very well, anything that makes noise is a perfect toy for Mason.

     I feel sad that Mason may not be able to do the things that me and my friends are able to do.  I hope he will be able to ride a bike, play hockey or snowboard down a mountain. I wish that he will be able to do some of these things and much more.  Besides, everyone doesn’t like the same things, so Mason might do things “he” likes. If he does that, it will make me happy.

     I love Mason for who he is and not because of his disability. I think Mason will do wonderful things in life and has made me appreciate mine much more.

I’m thinking that the world through Mason’s eyes looks pretty good.

LtoR: Kelly Witucki, Nicole Oncken, and Kim Anderson of Community Bank of the Red River Valley.

1st Place $100 Savings Bond

We’re Different, Aren’t We All?

by Nicole Oncken

   I have known many people with disabilities but the closest relationship I have is with S*****. I met her in first grade.  This is when I knew we would be friends.

     I remember inviting S***** to my seventh birthday party.  I thought she was just another classmate.  I didn’t judge her for having a disability. She was excited to know that she was coming to my party. She gave me a present that I still have today. It was a blue flowered backpack. I loved my gift and it held up good.

     Another memory that I have is when S***** was in a different classroom than me. She had a special gym class with two other kids that have disabilities.  Each of them could pick one person to help them.  S***** chose me, even when I wasn’t in her class.  We had so much fun. We played hockey, basketball and catch.  A couple of days we played with a rocket that you shoot in the air and a big parachute. S***** picked me so many times to go with her. Those times were a blast.

     S***** and I still talk and she always asks when my next birthday is coming up. I know that we will be friends for a long time.

LtoR: Levi Cuellar, DeeAnn Korynta of Community Bank of the Red River Valley, and Reed Hjelle..

2nd Place - $50 Savings Bond

My Friend

by Levi Cuellar

     My friend’s name is E****. He has Tourette Syndrome, but he is still a great friend.  He is originally from Pennsylvania but moved here right after he was born. He is home schooled and I am not, but we are still good friends. We have other friends, too, but we hang out together mostly.

     We both like motorized stuff and airplanes. He likes to build stuff and I like to draw.  He is a good drawer, too, and he can draw engines and stuff. I usually draw the outside of airplanes and other stuff and he draws the inside of it.

     E**** can’t sit still for very long, he can’t stop twitching, and always makes grunting sounds, but it doesn’t bother me a bit. He is good at baseball and he runs fast, too.  He has two younger sisters and we have fun annoying them because they bug us.

     We both go to the same church and a camp that our church sponsors.  We both stay in the same cabin with other kids who are in the same grade as us. We both like to eat but he can eat a lot more than me. At camp, he eats a lot my Aunt’s cooking because she is a cook there. E**** says he likes her cooking.

     We also sing in a church group with one of his sisters and two of mine.

     It is fun being his friend and I hope we can be friends forever and I hope he does, too.

2nd Place - $50 Savings Bond

We’re Different, Aren’t We All?

by Kelly Witucki

         I am writing about one of my friends.  She is about five years old and has a disability.  Her name is J****.  She was born with Tracheal Stenosis.  She has had more than forty-eight surgeries.

     Even though she is five years old, she is still my friend.  Sometimes in friendships, differences only make friendships stronger. I know my friends respect J****. I know it means a lot to me, but I can’t imagine how J****’s mother feels when she sees people talking to and helping J****.

     I also have a few other friends that have disabilities. Everyone should be treated equally. And the kids I know that have disabilities should be treated like any other person. It is not fair to those who have disabilities to be left out of a game, not to have anyone to talk to, or to have people laugh at you.  I think people should ask themselves how they would feel if they were the one with the disability who was being made fun of.

     I really hope when J**** grows up, that she will feel like any other person.  Just knowing who she is now, I know she will
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